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Sure, it may simply be that you are both homebodies who love to curl up on the couch and take in the evening’s prime-time offerings.Yes, sometimes our inner voices can be wrong, especially when we are motivated by fear, insecurity, or some other negative emotion.However, before you ever dismiss what your instincts are telling you, you should at the very least give them a good listen.But still, there are some subtle (and some not so subtle) reasons that keep you unsure about whether this is the best relationship for you.If you are trying to figure out whether you are where you need to be in terms of your romantic life, then consider the following clues. 1) You Two are Experiencing lots of Conflict Conflict is absolutely normal in any relationship.Then, if they turn out to be wrong, you aren’t out anything.
But if your instincts are saying that this new relationship may be in trouble, and they turn out to be correct, then you will have saved yourself a lot of heartache.
And exploring and addressing this baggage is a very healthy thing for partners to do as they are getting to know each other better. If your partner cannot stop talking about her ex, bringing up his name, or mentioning a story about him every time you two are together, then some moving on needs to take place.
Either your new significant other needs to move beyond that old relationship and turn his or her focus to what you two are trying to build together, or you need to move on yourself and find someone who will give you undivided attention.
If that’s the case, then that is a real cause for concern when it comes to the health and future of your relationship.
5) An Ex is in the Picture We all bring relational baggage to any dating relationship.
So if one of you seems to be feeling just the opposite on a consistent basis, then it’s probably not time to bet the farm on the future of the relationship.